Sales is just like Dating: Simon Sinek3 min read

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– Author and Inspirational Speaker

A commercial transaction, a sale is very similar to a date. You’re sitting across the table from somebody hoping to close the deal. So let’s pretend somebody goes out on a date. It was a setup. It was just like with work, and you’re introduced to somebody… and that kid sits across the table with his date. And he says, “I’m really rich, I’ve made a lot of money…really successful; I know a lot of famous people. I’ve got a beautiful house. You should come by and check it out sometime. And I’m on TV a lot, which is great because I’m really good looking.”

I mean, does that kid get a second date? I mean, it’s such a bad date. It’s so obvious; how badly that went. Well, why do we think that it’s any better in business? 

Let’s look how a business transaction goes. We sit down and we say, “You know, we’re very successful company. In fact, we’re the biggest in the industry; very successful. I am also one of their top salespeople; one of the top brokers. Our corporate headquarters are beautiful. You should come over and have a meeting there sometime. You may have seen our commercials on TV. We have an amazing Ad agency and we have beautiful TV commercials, which is great.”

Like if we thought one sucked, why did we think this is good? The irony is if you just learned to start with why, if you actually have a purpose, cause or belief underlying your work, it makes it profoundly changes that whole sales call.

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So that kid sits down again and says, “You know, I love what I do. I’m the luckiest person alive. I get to wake up every single morning to inspire people, to do the things that inspire them. I love my work. And the amazing thing is that actually been very successful at it. And I’ve made a lot of money because of it. And I got to meet all these famous people and I built a beautiful house. You should come by and see it sometime. And I get to go on TV all the time, which is really fun because you know, I’m good looking.”

 You can say all the same stuff. And now it’s the tangible proof of the philosophy of the belief, but it’s not the reason you buy. People buy into the cause, and so it’s the same at work.

Tell us what you love. Why do you love this business? Why did you get into this business? Why is it worth the blood, sweat, and tears and the uncertainty and the instability? Why do you keep doing it? It’s just to make money because the money’s good.

And if you don’t enjoy it, then start asking yourself some hard questions. Like, why are you doing it if it’s really that difficult and then if you really don’t love it. 

But to sit down across the table from somebody and say, “Let me tell you why I love this business.” And then you can tell them all what makes you great. But we don’t do that.

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We sell, sell, sell, sell, and we forget that relationships, whether it’s a date or a business relationship are all built on the same things.

– Simon Sinek

Simon Sinek ‘s talk: Sales is just like Dating